Navigating Grief and Loss: Healing the Mind, Body and Spirit:
- letsfindcalm
- Aug 4
- 2 min read

Grief touches everyone differently - but its impact is nearly always profound. It doesn’t just affect the heart; it ripples through the body, the nervous system, our thoughts, and even our sense of identity. Whether you’ve lost a loved one, a relationship, or a part of your future you once counted on, grief has a way of altering the ground beneath us.
It’s not something we “get over” - it’s something we "get through".

Unprocessed grief can lead to long-term emotional struggles including burnout, anxiety, depression, sleep difficulties, low mood, and isolation. It can also affect physical health, memory, focus, and relationships. And for many, grief leaves a spiritual void - a loss of connection, meaning or purpose.
So how do we begin to move through it - not around it, not over it, but through?

In therapy, we work gently and respectfully with the grieving process, recognising that there is no “right way” to grieve. We explore where you are emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Techniques that can be helpful include:
🔹Exploring feelings in a safe, reflective space
Talking about loss helps regulate emotion and reduce the overwhelm that often comes with it. Having somewhere to put your thoughts, tears or confusion can be grounding.
🔹Normalising grief responses
Many people feel guilt or shame around how they are (or aren’t) grieving. Counselling helps validate the full range of experiences, from anger and numbness to profound sadness and fatigue.
🔹Preventing burnout and overwhelm
With practical support, we can manage sleep, stress, and avoid the emotional overload that often comes with trying to “keep going” too soon. Small acts of self-care are encouraged and adapted to suit your needs.
🔹Mind-body awareness
Using grounding and breath-based techniques, we work to calm the nervous system. This helps reduce anxiety, panic, and dissociation - common in grief.
🔹Narrative and meaning-making
We gently explore what this loss means to you, how it fits into your life story, and how you can carry it forward with meaning - not forget, but integrate.

🔹Guided or silent meditation
🔹Breathwork for calming anxiety
🔹Journaling, memory letters, or expression
🔹Creating personal rituals for remembrance
🔹Time in nature, solitude, or contemplation
🔹Reconnecting with spiritual beliefs or practices that once offered grounding
Grief is not linear, and it’s not always logical. You may feel strong one moment, and lost the next. But there is support available - and you don’t need to face it alone.

As an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist based in Canary Wharf, I work with individuals navigating loss of all kinds. Together, we create a safe, non-judgemental space for healing - emotionally, relationally, and spiritually.
You are welcome here - whether your loss is fresh, complex, or quietly lingering.
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